The Ultimate Guide To Hooking Up In The Club

If you’re planning a night out, you may be wondering what exactly you should do if you want to be sure to meet someone new, a potential casual dating partner.

That’s okay, it’s something that makes most people nervous! While dating apps have taken over the world, you still have great chances of finding a date on a night out. Before you spend your night chatting on a hookup site like SPdate, then consider heading out to the club instead after you’ve read our tips. Here’s our guide to meeting someone new in the club and hooking up.

What to do to meet someone

There are so many options that are always open to you. Here are just a few:

1. Look around. You may think that everyone is looking at each other, or looking to hook up, but just as many people are looking for something completely different. Don’t give up just because you don’t see someone to talk to right away, because you never know what you’ll discover.

Go around and look for someone interesting, try to get closer to them. Look for those that seem interested in talking, or who are at the club alone, or maybe a group of friends. Sometimes just starting a conversation can do the trick!

2. Ask someone to dance If you’re looking to talk to a specific person, or maybe just introduce yourself, dancing is a great way to do so! Dance together.

How to keep the conversation going

Before you even think about meeting someone, you need to find a seat that’s not too hot or too cold. You don’t want to look like you’re sweating from your forehead (after all you are in a club).

The idea is to talk to as many people as possible to get a good conversation going. For this you’ll need to have a lot of energy. You can’t get nervous when you’re new to the club scene so you have to pretend that you’re already comfortable with the environment.

If you are lucky, you will be able to approach somebody attractive or you will at least get a chance to chat to the bartender or the bouncer. They will be the ones who can tell you if there are any single guys and girls there and that’s where you can start a conversation. At that point, you might have to get lucky with some sweet talk.

How to meet and chat with people

Get a drink or some snacks and set up at a table in the middle of the club at a table.

Pick a group activity like dancing, line-dancing or game playing to get everyone to mingling.

Talk to strangers. Ask them to join in on a game or activity and watch for those with similar interests.

Look for a cute guy or girl with a nice smile or a party girl.

Hug a few people as you walk through the club.

Talk with people who seem friendly or interested in talking.

Have someone watch your stuff as you dance.

Do what the group is doing and chat with anyone you like.

Do what you usually do when you’re at a club and watch everyone. Sometimes people get chatty when you start to just watch.

Mix and mingle.

Do something. Anything. Don’t sit in one place or you’ll probably get ignored. Do not ignore people.

How to ensure you are not being too forward

If you’ve ever been to a club or an event and come across a guy who caught your eye but then realized he is on the market, the embarrassment might have prompted you to swipe right fast so he can swipe left.

We have some thoughts on this: remember you’re out with your friends and in a social environment. For people in long distance relationships (L.D.s) or just living in different cities, this is very hard for you to do in person.

If you get too caught up on trying to impress someone you come across and you come off as being too forward, this can mean an uncomfortable silence that can last for the rest of the night.

Instead, as we’ve talked about before, open yourself up and be vulnerable and ask them if they want to chat. More often than not, they will.

How to find the right person at the right moment

When you’re in a club, you have to do a lot of work. One good method is to meet with your friends, talk and gossip, make good plans.

But when you find the right person for the moment, you have to be able to send a strong signal to your friend.

One way to do this is to introduce your friend to a person you like, or a friend of a friend, or anyone you know. This is something you can do after you meet, with a little planning on how you approach the situation.

How to be attractive

Of course, you have to approach girls in the club. So the best way is to look good. You can’t just wear a T-shirt and a pair of jeans. It should be stylish, in good shape, and not so low cut. You also have to smell good. In the club, you have to be able to stand out.

Conclusion

When looking to meet someone in the club, you need to make sure that you’re confident, comfortable, and looking your best. Most of all, you need to go out and try to meet someone.

You never know what amazing stories you’re going to get and what amazing people you’re going to meet. Have fun, play it safe, and go out and meet someone!

Shimmy Beach Club Presents #ExtraAF

The freshest R&B rap party to hit Cape Town’s shores, Shimmy Beach Club presents #ExtraAF, featuring award-winning artist Cassper Nyovest, alongside a line-up of the hottest talent to come out of Mzantsi.

Expect massive stage production, big sound, a stylish crowd, and the biggest day to night party at Cape Town’s flyest location, Shimmy Beach. It’s all going down on Freedom Day – Friday 27th April from 2 pm to midnight. Get your tickets now!

  • Early Bird General Access: R150
  • Early Bird VIP: R250
  • General Access: R200
  • VIP: R300

Ticket link: https://shimmy.nutickets.co.za/ExtraAF

Event link: https://www.facebook.com/events/1727747703948051/

The freshest R&B rap party to hit Cape Town’s shores, Shimmy Beach Club presents #ExtraAF, featuring award-winning artist Cassper Nyovest, alongside a line-up of the hottest talent to come out of Mzantsi.

Expect massive stage production, big sound, a stylish crowd, and the biggest day to night party at Cape Town’s flyest location, Shimmy Beach.…

Shimmy Beach Club Takes ‘Kid-Friendly’ To Exciting New Heights

Shimmy Beach Club’s child-friendly offering means the days when adults had to sacrifice delicious food, a relaxed atmosphere, and stunning sea views for the sake of a kiddie’s menu are long gone.

Whether it’s a relaxing day by the pool, a long lavish lunch or a decadent dinner you’re after, Shimmy Beach Club offers you the opportunity to ditch the baby sitter and indulge in an enjoyable family outing where the worlds of luxurious dining and kid-friendly facilities happily collide.

Shimmy’s own designated kid’s play area consists of an indoor jungle gym, ball pit, arts, and craft table and dedicated childminders who will keep a sharp eye on your little ones while you soak up the views and relax with a glass of wine on the beach, pool deck or in the restaurant area.

Further than this, the Shimmy jumping castle goes up on most weekends, adding an extra element of fun to the mix that will keep your kids entertained for hours.

When it comes to culinary preferences, Shimmy understands that faced with the unfavourable, little angels can turn into quite the opposite!

Luckily the kiddie’s menu was inspired by Executive Chef Adrian’s own daughters’ favorite dishes, which means your little ones can enjoy a kid-approved dish between splashing around in the pool, jumping on the Shimmy jumping castle or playing in the designated kid’s jungle gym and play area.

Click here to view our menu and kiddies menu: http://bit.ly/SBCMenu

Please note that on music festivals or event days, kids’ access will be limited to certain hours of the day. Please enquire about this when making your booking.

Shimmy Beach Club’s child-friendly offering means the days when adults had to sacrifice delicious food, a relaxed atmosphere, and stunning sea views for the sake of a kiddie’s menu are long gone.

Whether it’s a relaxing day by the pool, a long lavish lunch or a decadent dinner you’re after, Shimmy Beach Club offers…Share this

Valentine’s Day Dinner at Shimmy Beach Club

The day of love is almost upon us and Shimmy Beach Club is embracing Valentine’s Day to the fullest by offering a sumptuous 5 course candlelit dinner with an assortment of gourmet dishes to choose from.

Raise a glass and toast your loved one with a complimentary glass of Cote de Roses wine, the perfect tipple for the occasion.

Celebrate a romantic evening with someone special and enjoy Shimmy’s relaxed beach club vibe with live musical entertainment, while experiencing the ocean views from the sea-facing restaurant.

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Make your reservation by calling us on 021 200 7778 or email info@shimmybeachclub.co.za. Booking is essential.

The five-course set menu is R450 per person and includes a welcome drink.

View the menu HERE and below.

The day of love is almost upon us and Shimmy Beach Club is embracing Valentine’s Day to the fullest by offering a sumptuous 5-course candlelit dinner with an assortment of gourmet dishes to choose from. In fact, our beach club was voted one of the top hot spots for singles looking to find a hookup according to www.fuckbookapp.com , a popular free sex meet app for adults!

Raise a glass and toast your loved one with a complimentary glass of Cote de Roses wine, the perfect…

SEASONED. | Fridays at Shimmy Beach Club

Your Friday night just got tastier with the launch of Shimmy Beach Club’s new weekly dinner offering.

Seasoned celebrates food that is made for sharing, with a relaxed potluck style dining experience in their 220-seater restaurant, with high ceilings and ocean views.

To add some extra flavor to the experience, Shimmy resident DJ Sox will be laying down the tunes on the restaurant decks, with a live instrumental accompaniment that will change each week.

The menus on offer are designed for groups of four and upwards and will consist of a themed range of dishes that will change each week.

Whether it’s a Mexican fiesta-style spread, slow-roasted lamb with all the trimmings, or an Indian curry banquet with fresh sambal on offer, it will be delicious comfort food that’s made for sharing, grazing and wiling away the time with great company.

Book your table by emailing info@shimmybeachclub.co.za or call 021 200 7778. Menu available upon request.

Your Friday night just got tastier with the launch of Shimmy Beach Club’s new weekly dinner offering. Seasoned celebrates food that is made for sharing, with a relaxed potluck style dining experience in their 220-seater restaurant, with high ceilings and ocean views. To add some extra flavour to the experience, Shimmy resident DJ Sox will…

Shimmy Beach Club launches its brand new summer menu

The breaking out of the summer sunshine signals Shimmy Beach Clubs season to shine, and the launch of their new Shimmy Summer Menu reaffirms this idyllic seaside restaurant and venue as not only a must-visit beach club for summer parties and sundowners but a foodie destination.

Executive Chef Adrian Cook and Head Chef Michael Keating’s love of seasonal ingredients and local produce is the thread that carries through the variety of colorful, fresh and tasty creations that will be on offer this summer, with some exciting new dishes, the return of popular favorites, and some light, healthy additions that are perfect for poolside feasting.

The menu offers a back-to-basics approach, yet one that allows for greater variety and flexibility.

The starters double up as light meals – the heirloom tomato, Parma ham, and melon salad are perfect for a light lunch – and there is also the option to increase the portion size of some dishes, for those who would prefer to enjoy some of the starter dishes as a main.

For mains, guests are invited to choose their protein of choice, and then pick and choose from a selection of sides to make up a meal that tick’s their own personal boxes.

Grilled fillet, rump, rack of lamb, lemon and herb rotisserie chicken, and pork belly are the key players for meat lovers, while the Braai Platter for 2 must be the star of the show, offering a distinctly South African element to both locals who love a braai and new experience to international visitors.

Those that prefer fish will also be spoilt for choice, with sesame seared Norwegian salmon, grilled line fish, king prawns, fresh local mussels, served with either a traditional white wine and garlic sauce or with a touch of Asia added with a spicy teriyaki and beer sauce, grilled or fried calamari, or have the seafood platter to enjoy a complete taste of the sea.

And veggies rejoice – there are plenty of vegetarian and vegan options available, including a protein-rich sundried tomato and basil quinoa burger, a nourishing vegan butternut, zucchini and basil pesto pasta, wild mushroom risotto, roasted butternut and basil salad or choose from the revamped selection of woodfired pizzas, which are also available on a health conscious, yet delicious low carb cauliflower base.

For dessert, Pastry Chef Anina Mans satisfies all types of sweet-toothed cravings, with famous Baked Alaska, pineapple fridge tart, and popcorn Brulee back on the menu, and with a brand new decadently delicious Bar-One mousse, as well as a chocolate fondant to give the chocoholics amongst us their fix!

November also sees the relaunch of the pool deck menu, which is designed with a laid back Capetonian style of eating in mind.

Poke bowls are a deliciously trendy new feature, otherwise, there is also the option to “build your own platter” with a selection of your favorite finger foods that will keep you happy and nourished during a long ‘treacherous’ day of poolside tanning, drinking and soaking up the summer sun.

The kiddie’s menu was inspired by Chef Adrian’s own daughters’ favourite dishes, which means your little ones can enjoy a kid-approved dish between splashing around in the pool, jumping on the Shimmy jumping castle or playing in the designated kids jungle gym and play area.

The famously fresh sushi and dim sum remain a firm favorite throughout the season, and it should be mentioned that Shimmy is the only restaurant to offer carb-free cauliflower sushi rice as an alternative for those watching their carbs, offering a substantially more satisfying option, and which means you can still enjoy all your traditionally rice-based favorites, like salmon roses and rainbow rolls, without wrecking your diet!

Shimmy Beach Club’s restaurant is open from 11am until 11pm daily.

The breaking out of the summer sunshine signals Shimmy Beach Clubs season to shine, and the launch of their new Shimmy Summer Menu reaffirms this idyllic seaside restaurant and venue as not only a must-visit beach club for summer parties and sundowners but a foodie destination.

Executive Chef Adrian Cook and Head Chef Michael Keating’.